I love my wife, but that’s no longer translating to the bedroom. We were together 4 years before marriage, so things cooled down before the “I do’s.” We are coming up on our 1st anniversary, are trying for a baby, and I can’t even stay aroused. Clothes come off, she just lays there, hardly does anything to show interest in sex. To me it has become something of a chore. She thinks just getting any at all should be considered a priveledge and that “just laying there” should be enough for me.
She stopped french kissing me about 3 years ago. There’s no sexual intimacy at all. I’ve voiced that it’s important to me (the guy, yeah – weird right?). She just tells me it’s not for her, and that’s that. I should just accept it and move on. She also expects me to go down on her, which I don’t mind (even like it), but she will NEVER do the same for me. It doesn’t matter that I like it. The once in a blue moon she does do it, she complains and sighs the whole time. And it goes waaay beyond spit or swallow. It’s, “I’ll get you most of the way there, then you have to finish yourself off.”
She’s the least sexually adventurous or giving person in the sack I’ve personally ever heard of. I get jealous listening about other people’s wonderful sex lives. I’m getting worried about us now, because I almost feel like I’m going to find someone else (“cheat”) to fill the void she won’t listen to me about.
Now…baby, house…ugggh.
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