We have been married for four years and have two lovely kids born 2011 Jan and 2013 Jan. My sex life however is far from lovely.
Right from the onset, my husband who is 40 (i am 36) would always give me excuses as to why he would not have sex with me. The excuses range from having a headache, to being stressed at work, to not being in the mood etc.
Right from the onset, my husband who is 40 (i am 36) would always give me excuses as to why he would not have sex with me. The excuses range from having a headache, to being stressed at work, to not being in the mood etc.
On our honeymoon in 2009, it was a struggle to have passionate sex with him as he just wasn’t into it.
After our first child, he stayed away from me for nine months and I gave up going to ask him for sex after numerous refusals. Now we have had our second child and it has been 7 months (made love for the first time this year last week though).
After our first child, he stayed away from me for nine months and I gave up going to ask him for sex after numerous refusals. Now we have had our second child and it has been 7 months (made love for the first time this year last week though).
I really like my love, romance and intimacy but this dude ain’t giving me none of that and I cannot figure out why. Our last conversation this week, he revealed to me his two MAIN fears – 1) Why must everything with me lead to sex??
2) He is afraid he doesn’t satisfy me in bed (I HAVE NEVER COMPLAINED)
2) He is afraid he doesn’t satisfy me in bed (I HAVE NEVER COMPLAINED)
This new revelation has me at my wits end because I dont really know what to do again. Any help will do. I really DO NOT want to go outside to look for satisfaction:-(
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